My First Blog!!
Hello all..
I do had a thought at times to start writing blogs. But, always was going on the opposite directions of this thought. I could have started writing on something wide better, but an incident today that happened, forced me to start my blog with this. Well, I never knew i will be beginning with this topic but, I had to!! As, I found this necessary to make it understand to all, which I know is not going to happen!!
Today, the incident which I visualized is something which took me forward to give the title to my blog as..
"RESTRICTION = SUFFOCATION"
Today, I saw a girl talking with a boy on the road which generally we all used to do. I don't know who they were. I don't know what was their relation. I don't know that on what topic were they talking. But, the only thing that shocked me was, all of a sudden that girl's father came from somewhere, may be he was passing by, and just started shouting at her in the middle of the road in front of that boy and infact in front of the public! Seeing this, I was completely shocked. In fact everybody was. I just was not having patience to know that what the reason is that he reacted in a such a harsh way with his daughter. Their quite long argument was going in the middle of the road, without his father realizing that everybody is starring at them and especially his daughter. I was impatient to know the reason which I somehow managed to hear in between their argument.
The reason?! Oh my god, I was shattered! I was shocked! Yes, the girl's father started shouting at her just for the reason that, 'She was talking with a boy right in the middle of the road in front of everyone!!Just she was talking with the boy on the road, and he saw her and just started firing like hell on her on the road itself!!
What was she doing?? Was she doing something illegal on the road?? Was she doing anything which she should not do on the road?? Was she up to something with the boy on the road?? NO!!! She was just damn talking with the boy there out..And seeing this just, her father shouted at her that she is doing wrong and you cannot talk with a boy like this on the road!! Her father might have thought that what if some known will see them and think!? What if somebody thinks wrong about them?! WHAT IF SOMETHING IS REALLY THERE BETWEEN THEM & THE SOCIETY COMES TO KNOW,WILL THINK OF HIM!!! The incident was ridiculous and the reason was more than ridiculous.
I agree that I don't know what actually might be going on between the girl and the boy, may be her father is right but I don't think this is the way to react in front of the public that too in the middle of the road. Her father didn't even thought that people are looking at them, and her daughter is feeling embarrassed!!
I mean 'A girl now can't even talk with a boy on the road??' I don't understand,I don't agree & I don't support also. Thus,incident resulting into...?? A question on that girl's freedom, A relation gap between the daughter and her father now, A fathers wrongful Restrictions leading to daughters Suffocation now, and unfortunately to getting distanced from his father by the daughter.
Now here,who needs to grow up?? A Child or Parents??
Parents do always good for their children, but if children are doing something wrong, then EXPLAINING THEM IN THE RIGHT WAY WITH LOVE only will make the difference else not.
This is not the way to react which her father did with her daughter.
People....
Stop Developing Nation! But, instead support me in Developing the Orthodox Minds of Parents.
& to the Parents- kindly treat your children in right way, understand them, love them, mainly trust them & support them in their decisions until and unless they are right!
Save them from getting suffocated or else, get ready to LOOSE THEM!!
I support Freedom to Live! I support Growing Up of Parents rather than the Children!
What about you??!!
Hello all..
I do had a thought at times to start writing blogs. But, always was going on the opposite directions of this thought. I could have started writing on something wide better, but an incident today that happened, forced me to start my blog with this. Well, I never knew i will be beginning with this topic but, I had to!! As, I found this necessary to make it understand to all, which I know is not going to happen!!
Today, the incident which I visualized is something which took me forward to give the title to my blog as..
"RESTRICTION = SUFFOCATION"
Today, I saw a girl talking with a boy on the road which generally we all used to do. I don't know who they were. I don't know what was their relation. I don't know that on what topic were they talking. But, the only thing that shocked me was, all of a sudden that girl's father came from somewhere, may be he was passing by, and just started shouting at her in the middle of the road in front of that boy and infact in front of the public! Seeing this, I was completely shocked. In fact everybody was. I just was not having patience to know that what the reason is that he reacted in a such a harsh way with his daughter. Their quite long argument was going in the middle of the road, without his father realizing that everybody is starring at them and especially his daughter. I was impatient to know the reason which I somehow managed to hear in between their argument.
The reason?! Oh my god, I was shattered! I was shocked! Yes, the girl's father started shouting at her just for the reason that, 'She was talking with a boy right in the middle of the road in front of everyone!!Just she was talking with the boy on the road, and he saw her and just started firing like hell on her on the road itself!!
What was she doing?? Was she doing something illegal on the road?? Was she doing anything which she should not do on the road?? Was she up to something with the boy on the road?? NO!!! She was just damn talking with the boy there out..And seeing this just, her father shouted at her that she is doing wrong and you cannot talk with a boy like this on the road!! Her father might have thought that what if some known will see them and think!? What if somebody thinks wrong about them?! WHAT IF SOMETHING IS REALLY THERE BETWEEN THEM & THE SOCIETY COMES TO KNOW,WILL THINK OF HIM!!! The incident was ridiculous and the reason was more than ridiculous.
I agree that I don't know what actually might be going on between the girl and the boy, may be her father is right but I don't think this is the way to react in front of the public that too in the middle of the road. Her father didn't even thought that people are looking at them, and her daughter is feeling embarrassed!!
I mean 'A girl now can't even talk with a boy on the road??' I don't understand,I don't agree & I don't support also. Thus,incident resulting into...?? A question on that girl's freedom, A relation gap between the daughter and her father now, A fathers wrongful Restrictions leading to daughters Suffocation now, and unfortunately to getting distanced from his father by the daughter.
Now here,who needs to grow up?? A Child or Parents??
Parents do always good for their children, but if children are doing something wrong, then EXPLAINING THEM IN THE RIGHT WAY WITH LOVE only will make the difference else not.
This is not the way to react which her father did with her daughter.
People....
Stop Developing Nation! But, instead support me in Developing the Orthodox Minds of Parents.
& to the Parents- kindly treat your children in right way, understand them, love them, mainly trust them & support them in their decisions until and unless they are right!
Save them from getting suffocated or else, get ready to LOOSE THEM!!
I support Freedom to Live! I support Growing Up of Parents rather than the Children!
What about you??!!
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ReplyDeleteYes.. Only, we are not required to grow by age.. instead we should grow by maturity.. by our Mind set.. "Society should focus on grow.. rather than glow.."
ReplyDeleteI am in favour of writer view point..!!
Nice
ReplyDeleteGirl, you nailed every single point. Well done. It's high time now that we should start work on ourselves. Parents are pillar of strength for their children. Trust strengthen relationship more stronger.
ReplyDeleteThankyou people for supporting the view point.
ReplyDeleteGood.
ReplyDeleteIt will change after 2099.
After this generation dies.😃
No its not necesary...this will change if people wants to..
DeleteSome Parents thinks that they are our boss by giving birth to us and we should do as they say. But they don't know how to tackle children and treat them😐
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